"All love has hate in it. Because you are tied to anyone you love, and it takes away your freedom, and you resent it, you can't help it. And while you are resenting the loss of your own freedom, you are trying to force the other to give up to you every last little bit of (their) own. Love can't help but make hate. As long as we're living on this earth, love will always have hate in it. Maybe that's the reason we're on this earth, to learn to love without hating."
- James Jones, From Here to Eternity
